HYPNOSIS: GATEWAY TO INNER WISDOM (Article
written for The Voice Magazine, Jan., '02)
I wont have to do anything and my voice
will just come out of me and say things? Thats right, the hypnotherapist assured me in my first hypnosis
experience, all you need to do is just lie there. Two hours later I was still waiting for it to happen, getting a
little irritated, since I was paying by the hour. At this point the therapist perceptively said, Im picking up on
some anger. (No kidding!) Years later, after getting my Doctoral
degree in clinical hypnotherapy from the only state-approved institute and
after many successful hypnosis experiences, including being put across two
chairs, stiff as a board, I look back on that first experience as
invaluable. It taught me no one can
truly be hypnotized unless they want to be.
I
tell my clients, only you can hypnotize yourself will it, want it. All hypnosis is self hypnosis. The client participates as much as the
hypnotherapist in willing the physical and mental relaxation. Its hard work to will your body to relax,
actually. Go ahead and relax your
entire body. Hold onto that relaxation
tightly while trying to move your body. Did you move? If so, you know
youre in control, but you couldnt hold onto the relaxation, so try again.
Those of you who have never experienced hypnosis may be
wondering what is hypnosis, anyway, and how does it feel? Most people dont realize they are in a
trance when they do go into one. Theyll be doing a bizarre thing and when asked if theyre in trance
will say no. Ever get on an elevator
and watch peoples faces as they look up at the number indicators going,
going, down, deeper - 5, 4,
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Or watch the body language of someone deeply
engrossed in a T.V. program? Couch
potato may merely mean in trance. Naturally-occurring trances happen all the time. Any time you visualize something or pay
close attention to how your body feels, you go into trance. If you listen to a lot of data, particularly
technical, trying to follow and understand it, you may feel sleepy, the more
you try to concentrate tranced
again! Hypnosis is the suspension of
your critical faculties, your left brain, your logical, discerning,
intellectual part. At that point things
may seem plausible but actually make no sense. I was listening to a very hypnotic presentation once, supposedly as an
evaluator, and she said, remember there are no rivers, there are only
bridges. I mused how profound that
statement was, only to realize later, its plausibility was only because I was
tranced out.

How
can hypnosis help me? For simplicity,
lets say you have a conscious mind and an unconscious mind. Your conscious mind rules (usually), making
decisions, judgments and evaluations all day. The only trouble is, your unconscious mind holds the keys to all change
and all learning. You can consciously
say youre going on a diet or going to quit smoking. You can consciously want to stop biting those fingernails or even
get to that project youve been putting off. But until the unconscious mind accepts those suggestions, it doesnt happen. Like the old adage of leading a horse to
water but cant make it drink, you can overrule your heart with your head, but
until both are in accord, its an uphill struggle.
Benefits: hypnosis allows you to slip suggestions into
the unconscious, so it will uncritically accept and act on them. My clients have experienced:
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reduced dental visit
fear and pain
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shorter post surgery
recovery time
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uncovering and dealing
with old hurts and wounds
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more tolerable female
pelvic exams
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stopping nocturnal
teeth grinding
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stopping bed wetting in
children
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deeper meditations
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increased learning
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Everything
we learn is stored at the unconscious level. Think of the name of an early school teacher, how many inches in a foot,
or your email address. Where was that
information before you consciously thought of it? Stored at the unconscious level. We learn to drive consciously (hopefully) and then driving habits are
stored in the unconscious. Ever drive
somewhere and not remember how you got there? If you had to scratch your nose consciously, moving all 600 muscles in
your arm to get your hand to your nose might take hours!
Trance
is the natural learning state. Teach
children to go into trance in school and their learning and recall
increase. Compare a hyperactive kid in
school with that same child zoned out in front of the T.V. Because T.V. produces the hypnotic state,
s/he is more likely to absorb what is on the screen. Ever wonder why kids know all the words to popular songs, raps
and ads but cant memorize history, math or language? All learning is the domain of the unconscious mind.
For years we have been taught to emphasize our intellect,
the rational, our conscious mind. In
truth we are much more than our conscious mind. We have the wisdom of our life experience stored in our cells,
our bodies, our unconscious minds. We
have access to the wisdom of the ages through our unconscious. It is our doorway to spirituality. (Ever try to consciously, intellectually
meditate?) Hypnosis is not losing
control, it is a gateway to our own inner wisdom.